Dating after marriage breakup Freesexchats
Related How Sleeping With Other People Makes Me Love Being Married" data-reactid="42" Related How Sleeping With Other People Makes Me Love Being Married My sister (who is also my best friend) and her husband know, which is extremely helpful. I felt like I was living a double life for a while there, which I hated.
We've also told a few close friends, all of whom have been awesome and supportive.
We shared a big laugh when we realized just how weird/unusual it is for a husband to comfort his wife about her breakup with a boyfriend.
Ben hasn't fallen in love with anyone (he is a private person, and the women he is dating are not looking for serious relationships).
We believe in safe sex for everyone, not just open couples! It was not the same as the deep love I feel for Ben, but it was fun and meaningful.
Ben didn't feel threatened and was an amazing source of support when we eventually broke up.
Another big (and hopefully obvious) rule is condoms.
At first, we were monogamous (I was 18 and didn't know much about any other relationship structures).
Ben mentioned that he would be comfortable with me casually dating other people early on in our relationship, and it was then something we talked about every once in a while for a few years. When we graduated college (and moved in together), I met someone who I could see myself dating.
We took it really slow (lots and lots of conversation) and occasionally dated outside of our relationship.
As time went on, the "casual" piece has become less and less important.
I am super picky and not always seeing someone, but when I am, I like to see them once a week.